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"I can't tell you how much they adhere to it, but I do suspect that many people who think they are blocking are not including all three."
John Mueller separates documented behavior from assumptions by pointing out that not all AI services approach opt-out the same way:
"Of the AI services, I think OpenAI is the one (well, apart from Google, obviously—I work on some of the controls policies) that has the opt-out well defined and complies. You can test these things (I do), just beware that LLMs will explain things by guessing: if your URL is a.com/cheese and you ask what it's about, don't be surprised if it says cheese. The others either don't have documented controls or are flexible. One of them will fetch both robots.txt and your page at about the same time—and if your page comes back first, it wins. But all of this applies to training by crawling, which is the easy part of AI on the web."
"Back to meta tags—as far as I know, only Bing has a control via meta-tag. Everything else is robots.txt. There are more control systems being discussed, but robots.txt is easy to understand, very strong and observable, and reasonably granular. With transparency—AI model creators tracking how they crawl and what they comply with—it's a strong choice. Your robots.txt knowledge will be useful."
"They can't know about themselves (meaning large language models don't have direct visibility into their own crawling or compliance systems) unless it's explicitly in the system prompt or if it does live lookups (in which case, you can just read the docs yourself). They train from public data, and there won't be public data about it before it's live. Always read the docs directly—and ideally verify the behavior if you need to rely on it."
"IMO this is one area where SEOs can be fantastic consultants to site owners — you know how crawling works, you know robots.txt, you can learn how LLMs work, and you can help make decisions on what makes sense for gaining awareness and visibility for companies and brands. The whole AI space is filled with hypemobiles, but you can choose to be a reasonable consultant and help clients make reasonable decisions (which could be to block all or parts, or leave it all open — at least make a decision). If you've been doing good work as an SEO for them, they'll trust you (hopefully) more than a rando Sam-From-The-Internet who claims AI is here to explode and fix everything."
The gap isn't in the tools. It's in the decision-making.